Wednesday, 27 June 2018

Seven (7) signs your partner is cheating on you.

Can you tell if your partner is cheating on you with someone else? Not many people can read between the lines when their partner is having an affair, but knowing what signs to look out for and also some change in their behaviour will save you a lot of time, unnecessary commitment and some heart break.
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What is cheating?

Most people know cheating is wrong, but it's not always clear to them what it mean. There's a lot of meaning as to what cheating is. Different people define cheating differently, which means that some things that may not be considered as cheating in a relationship, actually are in some relationship. It depends on what you and your partner can tolerate or comfortable with, which is why it is important to always communicate with your partner.

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"Cheating is a deceptive act of hiding or not telling the truth to your partner,". It can also be define as "to act dishonestly in order to hurt somebody and gain an advantage."
A good way to know if you are cheating (just incase you trust yourelf too much not to cheat) is by asking yourself if you'd be uncomfortable getting caught. If the answer is yes, it's likely cheating. And if you suspect your partner is cheating, (not when your instinct says so) ask them questions. Even though it's a difficult question to ask (especially for those struggling with trust issues), it's better to know than to assume."
According to relationship expert,Chantal Heide "Humans are not monogamous by nature, but rather it's by our culture that calls for monogamy." You and your partner have to decide and have a conversation about what that means. You and your partner have to discuss whether you'd be OK with each other flirting with others, expressing attraction to someone else,talking about your last relationship, having too many friends of the opposite sex or having a bestie of the opposite sex.

Here are seven signs of cheating to look out for in your relationship.

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  1. They have an excuse for everything.
  2. When you start noticing some strange behaviours and you are trying to ask them questions about it, they have a million reason for it. They have a well thought out excuse to support their behaviour and they'll always put you in a position of not trusting them. If they start acting like this, it's likely they are cheating.
  3. They are always right.
  4. When your partner always make you feel bad about everything, especially when they are wrong, it's likely they are having an affair and are trying their best to piss you off so you call it quit or because they want you to see yourself as the problem and not them. So when you start asking questions, they're like "there you go again", constantly making you feel bad when you deserve some explanations.
  5. They keep you at arm's length.
  6. Suddenly, they stop talking to you about their friends and they stop telling you stuffs that happened after a busy day like they use to do and they are not interested about yours either. Read Also: Presidents wey done come go, nor mumu reach this one. - olamide extinguished President Buhari.
  7. They're always busy.
  8. Most of the time when you want to talk to them about something, they'll pay attention for a while and they'll tell you "why don't we talk about this later?". And from then on, they'll be busy and they'll never ask you about it or want to talk about it again.when they start avoiding questions and discussions, it's likely they're hooked up to someone else.
  9. Time's cut short.
  10. The time you get to see them is often cut short and you end up hanging out just a few hours here and there which also leads to break in communication.
  11. Secrets.
  12. They start keeping you away from their phones, not answering calls when you're around, not telling you things like they use to and even when they pick calls when you're around,they make it snappy like "i'll call you later". These signs are end time signs and it's likely there's something or someone they don't want you to know. Read Also: Bianca Johnson and Nollywood actress, Angela Okorie, blast Mercy Aigbe for wishing herself Happy Father's Day.
  13. Spending too much on fashion.
  14. They're buying lots of clothes and crazy fashion wears, especially those fitted clothes that bring out that hot shape. When they start going crazy about these fashion stuff, it's likely they're trying to impress someone else.

If you've notice any of these behaviours, it's up to you to decide whether to put it in the past or if it's something you can put up with.The unfortunate fact is we are powerless to change other people or stop them from behaving a certain way unless they decide to change and sometimes only when it benefits them.
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